Stalking and Emotional Blackmail Land Dorian Williams in Prison
He took her phone and her car keys then things turned even more sinister
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In a shocking case of domestic abuse and stalking, a Pembrokeshire man’s relentless pursuit of his ex-partner has led to his imprisonment. Dorian Williams, a 49-year-old MoT inspector from Felinfach, has been sentenced to months in prison for engaging in controlling behavior and stalking, following a disturbing pattern of emotional manipulation and harassment.
The case, which unfolded in Swansea Crown Court, revealed a harrowing tale of isolation, control, and persistent stalking that began in . Williams, described by his barrister as “quite meek and timid in his presentation,” systematically isolated his partner from her family and friends, exerting control over her daily life. His tactics included confiscating her phone and car keys, effectively cutting off her access to the outside world.
As the relationship progressed, Williams’ behavior escalated to physical assault. On one occasion, he threw a mobile phone at his partner’s face, and on another, he held her down by the wrists, leaving visible marks. The court heard that when the victim decided to spend Christmas with her family, Williams responded with a barrage of abusive text messages, calling her a “two-faced b*itch” and accusing her of infidelity.
The situation took a sinister turn when the woman ended the relationship. Williams launched what Judge Paul Thomas KC described as a “sinister campaign” of stalking. He bombarded her with up to calls a day, and when blocked, resorted to emails and social media contact. His tactics included emotional blackmail, with messages stating, “I’m crying every night – I love you,” and claims of not eating for days, blaming her for his distress.
Williams’ stalking behavior extended beyond digital harassment. He would appear at her workplace, peering through windows, and repeatedly drive past her home, revving his car engine and sounding the horn. The defendant even went as far as posting messages about her on Facebook and contacting her friends and student son.
Despite being arrested in November and again in December, Williams continued his relentless pursuit. Even after appearing in Swansea Crown Court in January and being released on bail, he resumed his campaign of harassment. When arrested for the third time in February, Williams reportedly told officers, “This is harassment,” showing a disturbing awareness of his actions.
The impact on the victim has been profound. In a statement read to the court, she described how Williams’ emotional blackmail had severely affected her mental health, leaving her struggling to recognize herself.
This case highlights the pervasive nature of domestic abuse and stalking in the UK. According to the Office for National Statistics, in the year ending March , an estimated . million adults aged to years experienced domestic abuse. Furthermore, the Suzy Lamplugh Trust reports that one in five women and one in ten men will experience stalking in their adult life.
Judge Thomas, in his sentencing remarks, emphasized the gravity of Williams’ actions, stating that he had sought to dominate his partner’s life and employed “emotional blackmail of staggering immaturity” when unable to accept the end of the relationship.
Williams, who had previous convictions for harassment and breaching a restraining order related to a different victim, pleaded guilty to the charges. In addition to the 18-month prison sentence, he will be subject to a five-year restraining order, prohibiting any contact with his former partner.
This case serves as a stark reminder of the insidious nature of domestic abuse and the importance of recognizing and addressing controlling behaviors in relationships. It also underscores the need for robust support systems and legal protections for victims of stalking and domestic abuse.